Live your destiny not your fate

I’m a super smart, highly sensitive *with a touch of trauma, who shows people how to find the truth of who they are so they can live their destiny. Not their fate. 

After years of adapting, improvising and overcoming, trying to fit my square derierre into a round hole - and running from the truth because I was scared no one would understand me, I began a conscious journey to knowing who I really was. 

I listened to self-help gurus, studied multiple spiritual traditions and followed the advice of self-development experts – journaling, meditating, working on “myself.”  No matter how much effort I put in, I never seemed to “get” it, could never keep the positivity train on the track long enough to create any sort of sustainable change. 

I felt like a failure, believing my fate was to live a half life of repeated patterns, unhealthy relationships and tiny bank accounts. So, I gave up.

And that’s when the miracle happened.

Like I was sitting in the chair at the optometrist’s office being asked “Is it better with number one or number two?” I saw clearly the first glimpses of the impact from that early trauma, the template it created in my brain about who I was and what I was worthy of. 

I am no longer caught in the trap I believed was my fate. I am living my destiny sharing my talents, insights, and knowledge so others understand they also have the power to unravel the lies and know who they really are by discovering the truth beneath their trauma.

Why does self-care look different if you've experienced early trauma?

How to avoid a career that is a trauma response.

What's the best path to discovering who you really are? 

Why there here is no "there" there?

How only focusing on changing behavior can be harmful.

The danger of assigning meaning. 

How dissonance is a skill that can be taught.

Why feeling good can be stressful.

The power of Jung's Third Option theory.

The difference between fear and danger.

How healing is a cellular upgrade?

What started your journey?

Why are you so passionate about this topic?

How do I avoid repeating trauma in my professional life?

What do you think needs to be changed in the way modern medicine approaches mental health?

Why isn't progress linear?
Why do I deal with the same issue repeatedly when I've already worked on it and thought I was done?

How was your mental health affected by the trauma?

What do you mean by soul excavation?

Is there always something deeper beneath an issue you're having or is it sometimes "a cigar just a cigar"?

What's your advice for folks who feel they need support on this journey?

What do I do when I feel stuck on this journey?

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